Saturday, April 17, 2010

Classic "I love her, she hates me" scenario?

Okay, so I'm a sophomore in college who spent the first 19ish years of my life without experiencing anything resembling love. However, for that time, I was happy without it. Here's where my problem starts. A girl who I went to high school with came to the same college as me, and we happened to share a class. I started talking with her, because she was a familiar face (I'm pretty anti-social). After a while, we started hanging out outside of class (nothing big, we'd just occasionally get dinner together, just as friends). One evening, I realized that I felt distinctly happy when I was around her, no matter how I felt earlier in the day; also, I found myself always thinking about her. I finally built up the courage to tell her how I felt, and she gave me the "let's just be friends" treatment. Seeing as I respect her so much, I was okay with that. However, now she never wants to see me again. I still love her, but I respect her too much to go to her room and talk to her.

Classic "I love her, she hates me" scenario?
Give it some time, basically leave her alone for about a week and a half, and then ask her if you can talk to her real quick, sometimes women get uncomfortable when a guy likes them and they don't like them in return, it's very intimidating because there's always the feeling as if they 'owe' something.





So like I said, give some time, and then later on just say "I'm sorry if I made you uncomfortable, can we be just friends?"


I think that will make her more at ease to mention what's on her mind, and you and her may have a shot at being friends.





This situation happened between me and this one guy where he liked me, and I felt intimidated/uncomfortable, and I ended up hating him for a while, but now after he handled it like that we've become incredibly close and I trust him...I'm in a relationship now, but if I wasn't, maybe I really would consider actually dating him.
Reply:She doesnt feel the same way and she doesnt sound all that coz she doesnt want to speak to you anymore... Forget her! Your too good for her! Most guys would pester her and annoy her! But you have respect! You'll fall in love again, this is a good experience, now you know your capable of lovin someone! ;)


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Reply:make out with her

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What do ya think?

Stuck here on this highway


In a river of red lights


For at least another mile


There’s no relief in sight


Feeling all alone but


From the radio comes


A thing or two remind me something I already know





In this moment You are here with me


In this moment You are closer then the air I breathe


You are the God who reigns in heaven


It’s amazing indeed


That You are here with me


In this moment





A few things on my checklist


That I need to do downtown


So I step onto the sidewalk


Full of people all around


Someone said the city, it can be a lonely place


But even though I know I can’t find one familiar face





In this moment You are here with me


In this moment You are closer then the air I breathe


You are the God who reigns in heaven


It’s amazing indeed


That You are here with me


In this moment





Anywhere, any time I’m on my own


I hold onto the promise


I’ll never be alone





Even though it’s midnight


And I’m lying in the dark


I think of You up in heaven


And You are in my heart





In this moment You are here with me


In this moment You are closer then the air I breathe


You are the God who reigns in heaven


It’s amazing indeed


That You are here with me


In this moment





You are here

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Reply:I am glad that you are using God in your poem. I mean He is the creator of the universe and like 75% of people don't think of Him daily. Your Poem sounds like it could be a Country Christian Song
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Is there anybody that you know personally you would choose for president?

and why would you vote for anyone you really don't know at all? name recognition, familiar face and an arguable "fact list" doesn't mean i know them at all. but can you read something between the lines that i cannot?

Is there anybody that you know personally you would choose for president?
I would not support a candidate whom I don't know. I always study a candidate before I support him.
Reply:Yes, there is one man who I would gladly nominate for US President. The only problem is, he is my legal counsel and he's irreplaceable to me, how could I share him with the country?!!





As for the candidates, I do make it a point to get to know them and to meet them. As someone who has been politically active since 1968, I get invited to pretty much all the states on the campaign trail. I am already pledged to a candidate based on my intensive research on everyone in the field and meeting a few of them.
Reply:Gee that's a loaded question. Who would I vote for that I know personally? Let me ask you this If I answer this will I have any friends left? Which aren't many. Can I choose God?
Reply:My Dad...but besides him I'll vote for Mitt Romney because he's the closest person running like my father. Honest, Smart, Well read, has integrity, looks at all angles of issues, looks the part and isn't going to look like a redneck in the White House, ....and I'm sick of people I can't trust. He's just the guy we need.
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Reply:a few WWII Veterans
Reply:Donald Duck, Mickey Mouse, Garfield, Scooby Doo, Etc....





(any of the above would be fine with me)
Reply:I've met Chuck Yeager.





I'd be content if he was running the country.





I prefer a candidate who has served in the military. A demonstrated willingness to place themselves in harm's way for the defense of the nation says a lot more to me than winning any popularity contests or their ability to influence a bunch of lawyers and get a law passed.





Some actions speak louder than words, and talk is as cheap as air.
Reply:I'd vote for you.





- Yes, right. It's disturbing that nine insomniacs on Yahoo Answers don't hob nob with McCain? Yet, wouldn't it be funny if one in this small group did know a candidate personally?


This is something God told mt to write what do you think of it? (PLEASE READ)?

DO YOU NEED A UP GRADE





Yeah we all jammed to Beyonce’s song Let Me up Grade You, we snapped our finger and bobbed our heads, I hear you be the block but I’m the light that keeps the streets on. You feel me. But the up grade I’m talking about is the one from my Father my all mighty savior. My pastor preached on this sermon this past Sunday. While pastor was preaching the Lord spoke to me. You see this is not the first time he has spoken to me. It could be the first time I may have listen. He tells me he wants me to speak his word, but I don’t believe I’m ready yet. Yes I have found him, but I’m not holy. I love gospel but that is not the only music I listen to, when my children or my husband is on my last nerve I don’t always speak calm and proper. So how am I able to speak his word I can’t even speak correct English and have a hard time writing it. Everyday in someway he tells me this is what he wants me to do. So is this his way of up grading me?





Can you think of a way that he has spoken to you? Has he laid it out for you but you’re not willing to commit? Do you not think that you are worthy? Sometime God blesses us with things that we don’t believe that we can do. If you don’t take control of that blessing you will lose it. I’ve been dealing with this for a long time. Lord I don’t have time for that, I ‘m to busy. Then it hit me what if he’s to busy for me? I’m I not going to get that job that I’ve been praying for, is my marriage going to fail because it is not covered in his blood the blood that I’ve prayed for. The answer is yes. If we continue to ignore him he will eventually ignore us. But he will never let you down like some fathers on earth have. He will forever be by your side. Being the children that we are to him sometimes we are punished.





Some of us (me) we want things to happen right away when we pray for them. Not all the times this happens. You must continue to have faith and live by his word. First you have to be restored with the word. What does that mean? Once I really got in to church I began to really understand what that meant. My grandmother raised her family in church, but back then we couldn’t wait to set down and right notes to one another. If we weren’t going to lead the choir in a song it sure was going to be a boring 2 hours. Yeah we hard the words but were we soaking it in I wasn’t. Then I got older and church was like an attendance record. Girl let me go to church so when Easter came’s they want be saying she just came’s to church on Easter. I began attending my church and every attendance the word got deeper to me, deeper, deeper, and deeper. I began understanding the word clearly. The song the Lord Has Smiles On Me brought tears to my eyes. This is a song that I grow up singing never had it ever affected me before. Amazing graze how sweet the sound that saved a ranch like me I get so happy that I’m shouting in my mind THAT’S ME THERE TALKING ABOUT ME. I sure was blind but thank God now I see. I sit in church and cry and cry people on the sides of me think I’m crying because I’m hurting but that’s not the case. I’m crying because I’ve found him (GOD) I’m crying because I’m HAPPY. I once was like that person going up to the alter wanting to give up on EVERYTHING didn’t think my life could ever get any better. BUT I FOUND HIM I FOUND HIM and because I found him I know that they are going to be all right.





You have to be repositioned by the word. God’s way of blessing you is not your way of blessing you sometimes you have to go through HELL. GOD wants you to have so much more in life but some time’s you must get cut to get it. Some single woman maybe out there lonely depressed because they don’t have a man. You may slip on your way trying to find one. That slipping my have caused you your blessing in that good man that you have been waiting on is delayed because you must be punished first. Sisters yeah that sister might have that good man, but you never know what she’s been through to get him. Yeah that married couple is always smiling and happy but you don’t know what brought them to that point. First I should have told you DON’T BUT YOUR TRUST AND MAN! By saying man I mean human I talking to the guys to. Humans will only let you down. God knows your heart he knows what is best for you. I’m telling you this because I learned it the hard way. Some may say that I married at a young age 20 years old. I don’t believe I was young I was in love and my love for my husband is still as strong as when I first fell in love with him. The only thing that has changed is that I’m learning how to love him the way God wants me to. Not saying that I’m perfect because I’m not close to it. No, this just didn’t happen all of a sudden, it took me awhile to realize I can’t fix everything on my own. I had fallen down but God lifted me back up. Through it all I learned that I’m not the woman God wants me to be and if I don’t put him first I will never receive all that he has for me. Some women want children but they are not able to bear them. Some are out here dropping them like it’s hot in the words of Snoop and not taken care of them. What ever it is that you have in your heart that you desires God does make miracles. Sometime you have to dig deeper in order to find out what you have to do to receive that miracle. God is telling you something you just have to open your ears and listen to what ever he tells you to do LISTEN and OBEY. One day in church one of my classmates walked in with her sister, when I seen them God spoke to me. He told me that the two woman were going to go up to the alter for pray and when they do go up join them hug them let them know that it is nothing to be ashamed of that He is with them. Now in school this girl and I were not exactly friends in fact we finished school on a sour note. When it came time for the alter call they did go up to the alter. I fought it and fought I’m like God that girl is not going to trust me she is going to look at me like I’m crazy. My church asks the people that go to the alter to follow in a line and everyone goes to the back and writes down there pray request. My classmate in her sister set back down they didn’t go to the back. I could have been the familiar face that comfort them and let them know that everything was going to be alright, but I didn’t. The second time he spoke to me my niece received a kidney transplant within 2 years that is truly a blessing. Her mother called me to get the number to the newspaper and news channel. He told me Tiffany make sure she mentions my name. I’m like so I’m suppose to just say Net (her mother) make sure you tell Rasha to say that God did this for her. I hesitated but I told her. In today I’m writing my third message he told me to take my pastors message and make it into my own. I did.





Reward in the word. God wants you to have more you have to get cut to get it. I’ve been cut and stabbed and I’ve made it. I wrote poems before I’ve sent out stuff before but I’m not a good writer. I write how I say it and some may say it’s not correct English. Yeah I fought him with this one, but I did it. I love him so I’m willing to make a fool out of myself. I said that I was going to send it out to my cousin Tameka to proof read like I always do he told me no this is your words they need to hear it from you. They need to know that God children are not perfect we all have flaws. I don’t know what my purpose in life is but what ever he has planed for me I’m rolling with it. You see there is a great reward at the end. You may laugh at me you may criticizes me, but I told you in paragraph 3 that I don’t put my trust in man because they will always let you down. God has a great reward for that single mother, that childless sister, that woman that thinks her marriage is over, that woman with cancer, that child that is being bulled at school, that single father, that husband that is just about ready to give up, that student that doesn’t think college is for them, that girl who thinks by given her boyfriend everything he wants it will make him love her. God is talking to you its time for YOUR UP GRADE are you ready to receive it.





Now by me writing this to you doesn’t mean that you want see me dancing to my favorite song, drinking my favorite drink it means God is changing me I just have to be willing to receive it. I am I may slip up at time but again I’m human. If he did it for me trust me he can do it for you.

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From the moment of creation, every man is endowed with the faculty of conceiving the existence of God through the use of his conscience and wisdom.


It is a clear fact that everything in the universe, down to the slightest detail, is the creation of God. Everything surrounding us is solid evidence of the existence of God. God created birds flying in the sky; fish in the depths of the ocean; camels in the desert or penguins at the south pole; the bacteria in our body, invisible to the naked eye, fruits, plants, clouds, planets, and glorious galaxies in the most complete state, and equipped them all with delicate systems and superior characteristics.


Similarly, all systems supporting life on earth are based on very delicate balances. Very slight, even millimetric variations or deviations in these balances would render life on earth impossible. A brief examination of these balances reveals the extraordinary calculation and design inherent in them. For instance, if the earth revolved at a slower speed around the sun, it would result in huge temperature differences between day and night. A faster speed, on the other hand, would mean the occurrence of hurricanes and floods, a serious challenge to existence on earth.


Likewise, there are many other delicate balances making the earth a life-supporting planet and it is unlikely that they could have come into existence by chance. Accordingly, it is impossible that a wise man would attribute such exquisite balances and calculations to blind chance. A car or a camera reminds man of the existence of a conscious designer. Similarly, one should conclude that the universe, with its glorious interrelated web of systems, is not a self-governing entity which came into existence all by itself. God frequently draws our attention to the evidence of creation:





It is He Who sends down water from the sky. From it you drink and from it come the shrubs among which you graze your herds. And by it He makes crops grow for you and olives and dates and grapes and fruit of every kind. There is certainly a Sign in that for people who reflect. He has made night and day subservient to you, and the sun and moon and stars, all subject to His command. There are certainly Signs in that for people who use their intellect. And also in the things of varying colours He has created for you on the earth, there is certainly a Sign for people who pay heed. (Surat an-Nahl: 10-13)





Is He, then, Who creates like him who does not create? So will you not pay heed? (Surat an-Nahl: 17)





Pondering over the issues mentioned in the above verses surely suffices to make one, albeit, totally deprived of religious knowledge, conceive of the existence of God and appreciate His power and might. Just considering one's body, a composition of interrelated complex systems, makes one conscious of the superior creation of God.


Consequently, one, who is even unaware of the book revealed by God, can reach God through observation and contemplation of his surroundings. For people of understanding, the world overflows with evidence:


In the creation of the heavens and the earth, and in the alternation of night and day, there are Signs for people with intelligence: those who remember God, standing, sitting and lying on their sides, and reflect on the creation of the heavens and the earth, saying: "Our Lord! You have not created this for nothing. Glory be to you! So safeguard us from the punishment of the Fire." (Surah Al 'Imran: 190-191)





At this point, the need for religion becomes more apparent. This is simply because one who perceives the existence of his Creator would surely like to feel closer to Him, know Him better and find ways to attain His love and mercy; and the only way to do this is to have a good understanding of the values of the Quran, the unchanged word of God and the divine book of Islam, the religion of truth.








(The Quran Provides Knowledge for the Most Fundamental Issues One Needs to Know )





In every age, God sent down messengers and books to man, thereby introducing Himself to man, instructing him about the attitudes, behaviour, moral values and life style He has designed us for. They informed man about the true meanings of the concepts of good and bad, right and wrong, making us aware of the life after death, the rewards for those who obey God and the punishment awaiting the rebellious ones.


In this way, God explained every issue man needs to know throughout his life by means of divine religions. All information pertaining to a fulfilling and rewarding life both in this world and beyond is provided to man. This basic purpose of righteous religions conveyed to man through messengers and books is given in many verses in the Quran:





…We have sent down the Book to you making all things clear and as guidance and mercy and good news for the Muslims. (Surat an-Nahl: 89)





We have sent it down with truth and with truth it has come down. We only sent you to bring good news and to give warning. (Surat al-Isra': 105)





Then We gave Musa the Book, complete and perfect for him who does good, elucidating everything, and a guidance and a mercy, so that hopefully they will believe in their encounter with their Lord. (Surat al-An'am: 154)





(The Quran Explains the Real Purpose of Life)





Throughout world history, billions of people came into being, lived and then died. Only a minority of these people endeavoured to grasp the real purpose of life. The rest simply drifted with the daily flow of events and spent their lives in vain pursuits. Basically, fulfilling their own desires became their main purpose in life. An unconscious and irresponsible attitude underlay this dominant mode of behaviour in almost all societies throughout ages. Every generation, with a few exceptions, repeated the errors of the preceding ones and simply adopted the purposes and values of their forefathers. This is a vicious cycle still repeated today.


The majority of people are enslaved by "unvarying" philosophies and principles, which are mostly based on the following line of reasoning: Man comes into existence, becomes adult, grows old and dies. One is born only once, and death puts an end to everything. This is why people have to "make the most of life" and strive to satisfy their whims and desires throughout their lives.


Thus, people come to spend their lives which they think to be their one and only chance by adhering to the life style and mode of behaviour they inherit from past generations. In a spirit totally deprived of the awareness of death, they make pursuing pleasures and planning for the future the ultimate aims of their lives. Regardless of cultural and social differences, this fact holds true for all people. A prestigious education, an admirable position in business life, high standards of living, a happy family and countless similar goals become the unchanging pursuits of life.


These goals can be further extended and would fill many pages if enumerated. However, the truth is, all these people turn a blind eye to the one and only reason for their existence. Meanwhile, they spend a whole life, which is a unique opportunity offered to them to accomplish their ultimate purpose, in vain. This ultimate purpose is to be a servant of God. This is explained in the Quran as follows:





I only created jinn and man to worship Me. (Surat adh-Dhariyat: 56)





The way to be a good servant of God is also communicated in the Quran. Being a servant of God means accepting the unity and existence of God; knowing His attributes and appreciating His majesty, serving no other deity except Him and devoting one's life to earning His approval. In the Quran, the moral values and lifestyle favoured by God are described in detail and people are summoned to this way of living.


A person living within the boundaries set by these values is given the good tidings of a perfect life both in this world and beyond. Otherwise, a bitter end awaits man.


The lifestyle one adheres to in this world shapes his eternal life. After death, there is no opportunity whatsoever to compensate for one's reprehensible deeds. Therefore, behaving as if man owes his existence in this world to coincidences, as if he is not bounded by any limits, and as if he has come to this world to spend his life in the pursuit of vain desires would ultimately lead to his own ruination. Those behaving irresponsibly towards their Creator, ignoring the real purpose of their existence, and remaining unconcerned about its consequences in the life beyond will be chided thus in the Hereafter:





Did you suppose that We created you for amusement and that you would not return to Us? (Surat al-Mu'minun: 115)





In reality, such people are not unaware of their purpose in life: God proclaimed it through His messengers and books and provided guidance to the true path. Furthermore, man is granted a lifetime to take warning. A show of regret by those who, having turned a deaf ear to all these opportunities, have deviated from their real purpose in life and pursued their own desires will not save them from torment:


They will shout out in it: "Our Lord! Take us out! We will act rightly, differently from the way we used to act!" But He will answer: "Did We not let you live long enough for anyone who was going to pay heed to pay heed? And did not the warner come to you? Have a taste of it then! There is no helper for the wrongdoers." (Surah Fatir: 37)





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If anyone is familiar with "The Odyssey" and the "12 Stages of a Hero", can you please help me???

I have to somehow relate each stage to an event in the Odyssey:





1. ORDINARY WORLD: “In The Hero with a Thousand Faces, Joseph Campbell describes the beginning of the typical hero’s journey. ‘A hero ventures forth from the world of common day into a region of supernatural wonder…’”


2. CALL TO ADVENTURE: “The Call to Adventure may come in the form of a message or a messenger. It may be a new event like a declaration of war, or the arrival of a telegram reporting that the outlaws have just been released from prison and will be in town on the noon train to gun down the sheriff.”


3. REFUSAL OF THE CALL: “Some of us turn down the quest, some hesitate, some are tugged at by families who fear for our lives and don’t want us to go. You hear people mutter that the journey is foolhardy, doomed from the start. You feel fear constricting your breathing and making your heart race.”


4. MEETING WITH THE MENTOR: “By this time many stories will have introduced a Merlin-like character who is the hero’s Mentor. The relationship between hero and Mentor is one of the most common themes in mythology, and one of the richest in its symbolic value. It stands for the bond between parent and child, teacher and student, doctor and patient, god and man.


5. CROSSING OF THE FIRST THRESHOLD: “The task for heroes at this point is often to figure out some way around or through these guardians. Often their threat is just an illusion, and the solution is simply to ignore them or to push through them with faith. Other Threshold Guardians must be absorbed or their hostile energy must be reflected back onto them.”


6. THE ROAD OF TRIALS: “Now the hero fully enters the mysterious, exciting Special World which Joseph Campbell called ‘a dream landscape of curiously fluid, ambiguous forms, where he must survive a succession of trials.’ It’s a new and sometimes frightening experience for the hero. No matter how many schools he has been through, he’s a freshman all over again in this new world.”


7. APPROACH TO THE INMOST CAVE: “The hero comes at last to the edge of a dangerous place, sometimes deep underground, where the object of the quest is hidden. Often it’s the headquarters of the hero’s greatest enemy, the most dangerous spot in the Special World, the Inmost Cave.”


8. ORDEAL: “Here, in this moment, is the chance to win all or die. No matter what you came for, it’s Death that now stares back at you. Whatever the outcome of this battle, you are about to taste death and it will change you. The simple secret of the Ordeal is this: Heroes must die so that they can be reborn.”


9. REWARD (SEIZING THE SWORD): “Heroes don’t really become heroes until the crisis; until then they are just trainees. They don’t really deserve to be loved until they have shown their willingness to sacrifice. At this point a true hero has earned a love scene, or a ‘sacred marriage’ of some kind.”


10. THE ROAD BACK: “The Road Back is a turning point, another threshold crossing which marks the passage from Act Two to Act Three. Like crossing the First Threshold, it may cause a change in the aim of the story. A story about achieving some goal becomes a story of escape.”


11. RESURRECTION: “In ancient times, hunters and warriors had to be purified before they returned to their communities, because they had blood on their hands. The hero who has been to the realm of the dead must be reborn and cleansed in one last Ordeal of death and Resurrection before returning to the ordinary world of the living.”


12. RETURN WITH THE ELIXIR: “Having survived all the ordeals, having lived through death, heroes return to their starting place, go home, or continue the journey. But they always proceed with a sense that they are commencing a new life, one that will be forever different because of the road just traveled.”

If anyone is familiar with "The Odyssey" and the "12 Stages of a Hero", can you please help me???
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Reply:Would you settle for some clues? Don't forget, there's not only Odysseus's Hero's Journey, but also one for Telemachus (books 1-4, and some at the end). So, if the assignment doesn't specify, you can use either.





Also, I'm going by memory here, so use your judgment and check out anything I write.





1. Even though Greek mythology is filled with all kinds of beings that supposedly exist, or used to exist, on earth, that doesn't mean that Homer necessarily believed that the gods and creatures like the Sirens did, in fact, exist. The experts believe that Homer may very well have seen them as fantastic (supernatural) creatures.





2. Messenger of the gods. Wings, funny-looking hat... :-) The message itself may not have been given directly to Odysseus (I just don't remember), but it was about him and is important.





3. No clue. I don't recall a refusal.





4. Mentor: Who helps Odysseus, and helped to save his life more than once? It's the same one who also helps Telemachus in the first 4 books.





5. Too many things are coming to mind, so I'll pass on this, too.





6. Pretty much his entire journey is a road of trials (his "road" being the sea, of course, and even when he finally arrives at Ithaca).





7. This should be easy. What's the strangest, most unexpected place, Odysseus visits? Hint: Every hero in every ancient epic has visited this Place.





8. It must have happened in the Place referred to in #7.





9. Reward: He receives several, of two kinds that I recall (material rewards and an offer [hint: Nausicaa]), on the last stop before Ithaca.





10. Fairly obvious. About a change in aim: Remember that Odysseus has no idea of what's been going on in Ithaca, what Penelope and Telemachus have been dealing with for about 9 years.





11. %26amp; 12. I leave to you. Good luck!


Neighbor stole my cat?

Ok so we got a cat a few months ago for our daughter,adopted her from the local shelter. She was an indoor cat and oneday got out never to be seen again...or so i thought. We noticed just recently a familiar face looking out the nieghbors window..Its our cat. We had posted lost cat signs and everything and they never called to tell us. Our cat has peculiar markings so we KNOW this is ours..what should we do. She is microchipped but still under the Humane Society,we never had a chance to change it to our name. we have missed our kitty dearly, and now know where she has been all this time.

Neighbor stole my cat?
can you talk to this neighbor?
Reply:Ok I would report the cat stolen and have them go to the neighbors house and get the cat.


The cats microchip will show the cat from the Human Society and then you can get your cat back as it will be recorded that you own the cat through the human society. You could also try and talk to the neighbor and tell them that the cat has a microchip and that you can prove the cat is yours and if they dont return it that you can report the cat as stolen and go from there.


You should get your cat back either way.
Reply:THe best thing you can do is talk to them and let them know that she was an indoor cat but escaped. Let them know that she is microchipped and you can prove (or the Humane Society can vouch for you) that it is your cat. That's what microchipping is all about. Perhaps they took the cat in because it didn't have a collar, not being aware of microchips. Maybe they just love her and dont want to give her up. If you really have a great home why dont you invite your neighbor over to "inspect" and she will probably give the cat back. If not, time to call the humane society and ask for help. Good luck!
Reply:Go %26amp; ask your neighbor for your cat. If they say anything tell them you can prove ownership.


You may want to report them in case they are not very nice about it. Just to have a record of it.


The Humane Society will have a record of her chip # %26amp; maybe they can help you.


Good luck, I hope you get her back. If you do regeister her quick.
Reply:The Humane Society will know that that cat was adopted by you. Go to them and tell them what happened and then get in touch with your neighbour and tell her the cat is microchiped you don`t need to tell her its not in your name and if she will not return the cat you will go to the police. I f you have to go to the police they will be able to find out who really owns that cat, You.
Reply:I'd be really pissed off and probably just go get it. If someone stole either of my cats and I found them - nothing short of death could stop me. This situation really has to strain the neighborhood vibe.





The unfortunate thing nobody has mentioned is that the cat probably has bonded with your neighbor by now. The poor cat is the ultimate victim - already having to endure multiple family changes.
Reply:Go to your neibhors house and ask for your cat back. If that doesn't work then call the police. You also might want to have the Cops already contacted before you go to the door because they may not gve that cat back and maybe already havng a police there with you will scare them into giving your cat back.
Reply:As others have said, the chip will be traced back to the humane society and they will have you on record as adopting the cat.





Involve the police if necessary.
Reply:you should talk to try to see if the cat is female or male first. A lot of cats look alike. make a list of similarities. if they match up try to talk to your neighbor. Don't involve the authorities because you have no evidence its yours.
Reply:I would make a police report, have the cat checked for the chip with all information you know is on it. Once proved your cat, you will get it back right away. I wouldn't let anyone get away with stealing my cat.
Reply:Explain to your neighbor politely that it is your cat and you would like to have it back. If they don't believe you show them pictures and then you may get it back.
Reply:The Humane Society has your adoption record and can trace the cat back to you from the scan. Go tell your neighbor (with a policeman) to hand the cat over or you will prosecute.
Reply:Wow. It's always nice to know you have great neighbors, right? Pshh.


Talk to the Humane Society. If that really IS your cat, then they will be able to get it back without a problem. (:


Good luck!
Reply:ha ha ha! what a rude naighbor!!! ok so just knock on the door and ask for it back. if he/she says no call the cops and let them take charges. it ain't hard.
Reply:Go to your neighbor and Get Your Cat Back.


And if she doesnt want to give it up call the Humane society or the police so u can get it back
Reply:Sue the neighbor for theft.
Reply:What is wrong with just knocking on your neighbor's door and asking for your cat back?
Reply:Talk to the neighbor, inform them the cat is microchipped and the chip can be checked (don't mention that it's still in the Humane Society's name, the HS has you on file as the owner, so you're covered there). Show the neighbor the lost cat flyer you posted and tell them you've seen the cat looking out their window. Make sure you went over there with a carrier in your hand.





If they deny it, then it's time to call the police, who will go with you to the home. The cat is identified by the microchip--it's your property and you have proof. Make sure you have the microchip number written down (you'd have gotten it on your paperwork for the cat). Any vet can confirm the number with their scanner.


Can you interpret this scary dream for me?

.i was in a forest...their were people in line to perform i was waitin for our group..but somehow i walk far like maybe 12 steps or more away from them..im not sure why i was farther from them...but i was lookiin back a few times to see if its our





turn to perform..then i walked further. then i got scare so i wanted to go back..then i walk back..but their was this dark pathway..can't see anything.but i was still in a forest wiht alot of trees then I bump into a girl i hear her scream..then i think i





look at her or walk further not sure but i remmeber either ..their was this guy with a familiar face that i see before..he was


outside like in the day light.i felt ike i wanted to leave this place then he got a hammer..and kill me but at the same time it was like i watching him kill me then suddenly their was this


tools on the side.and their was the hammer..and dont know who was saying but in my mind some said wheres the body..i was their too.with this blackguyand i was in a cave

Can you interpret this scary dream for me?
Rather than a warning about others being after you, I think this is an indication that you have a lot of anxiety. Seems to me that you feel like you belong with the rest of humanity, but want to branch out. Yet, life is very unsure and scary for you and all of the fears of "what could happen" flood your mind and stifle you.





Without knowing more about your life, a dream cannot truly be interpreted, except by you, if you analyze what your overall approach to life is. It could be that you feel held back in your workplace. Maybe someone in your social circle is pressuring you or makes you feel "creeped out." Only you can answer those questions. You may consider taking a class in judo, just to give you a bit of self-confidence (not because of the actual dream -studies show martial arts are terrific for the psyche), or see a therapist if you are really insecure. Try not to stress too much over it. Just look at it and see how life is directing you, you will find your answer.
Reply:Maybe it means that you know that there's someone that you're not really getting along with, and you're scared of them killing you. Maybe they have a group of people that you're not really friends with.
Reply:The forest is not always the safest place to be. But you were with other people and had to perform in some way with a group. Doing things with a group should be a good thing depending on what one is performing. At least you get to showcase yourself with others. But somehow you got seperated and couldn't find your way back. Maybe you need to be careful about not staying close to where you need to be. And making sure you don't miss out on opportunities because you tend to wander away from where it is best to be to take advantage of them. One definitely does not want to be alone in a dark unfamiliar place. Bumping into the girl and hearing her scream just brings out the how scary the situation is. A familair face on the person that attacks you, might mean you need to watch out for some people you know that may have a negative side to their temperment. You don't want to be in a place where you can be vulnerable to the wrong person even if you know him to a degree. You were killed, but somehow ended up in a cave with a black guy. Death can represent a possible transformation happening in your life, and maybe you will find a safer place to be, like the cave in the dream. Hopefully the black guy was friendly. One does have to be vigilant in this world, and be aware that one needs to be careful in what you do, and where you go inorder to stay safe. If one makes a reasonable effort one should do fine. To me every effort one makes spiritually is rewarded. One gets in trouble when one ignors the possibility of things going wrong and does not pay attention to what one needs to do to stay safe or keep out of trouble. One does not want to go crazy about safety, one does have to depend on a higher power or one's intuition to some degree in this world inorder to be safe. One needs to make sure you don't wear yourself down, and have time to recharge your spiritual batteries. When one has spiritual energy in reserve, one can be surprised how much one can pull out of oneself in a time of emergency. Meditate/pray, exercise, and eat healthy, so that you will stay spiritually strong, so as to be able to safeguard yourself from harm.