Will working out make me more assertive with girls?

My friend wanted me to ask this question because he thinks that if we worked out we would be more likely to go up and talk to girls. We are not bad looking kids, neither of us have really had any problems with girls in the past, but going to a place where there are no familiar faces we don't just go initiate conversations. We walk past a lot of hot girls and we see them looking at us, but we just don't act on it. Our other friends are all meatheads and a lot bigger in size, and they just walk around talking to girls every chance they get. Is this because they are testosterone heads? Would working out make us more assertive? We are not meat heads, but were also not wimps. We're basically completely contempt with the way we look and we know girls would talk back if we sparked a conversation- we just don't do it.

Will working out make me more assertive with girls?
It might help boost your confidence, but it is more about your attitude and state of mind than your muscle size.





If you want to be more assertive, just do it. Fake it...fake it long enough until you believe it about yourself.
Reply:i dont think it has anything to do w/ working out, i think they think itll make the girls like fall in love w/ them, which for like most normal girls, isnt true. NOT ALL MIND ME some girls do like that....
Reply:No no no and no i don't think being a meat head would make you better and i don't think muscles would either.





I know plenty of girls who like guys who don't work out they like them for who they are





If you like how you are be confident about yourself and if a girl turns you down she turns you down. No harm done and your tried at least so there is no regret PLUS there are more girls you can talk to. Don't just hit on a random girl start a conversation about your surroundings and I'm not talking like "Hey isn't the paint nice"





Maybe mention the music that is playing in the background see if the girl likes it.......don't say the band is crap in case she likes it start off with something small like "Hey do you like this singer/band"