Classic "I love her, she hates me" scenario?

Okay, so I'm a sophomore in college who spent the first 19ish years of my life without experiencing anything resembling love. However, for that time, I was happy without it. Here's where my problem starts. A girl who I went to high school with came to the same college as me, and we happened to share a class. I started talking with her, because she was a familiar face (I'm pretty anti-social). After a while, we started hanging out outside of class (nothing big, we'd just occasionally get dinner together, just as friends). One evening, I realized that I felt distinctly happy when I was around her, no matter how I felt earlier in the day; also, I found myself always thinking about her. I finally built up the courage to tell her how I felt, and she gave me the "let's just be friends" treatment. Seeing as I respect her so much, I was okay with that. However, now she never wants to see me again. I still love her, but I respect her too much to go to her room and talk to her.

Classic "I love her, she hates me" scenario?
Give it some time, basically leave her alone for about a week and a half, and then ask her if you can talk to her real quick, sometimes women get uncomfortable when a guy likes them and they don't like them in return, it's very intimidating because there's always the feeling as if they 'owe' something.





So like I said, give some time, and then later on just say "I'm sorry if I made you uncomfortable, can we be just friends?"


I think that will make her more at ease to mention what's on her mind, and you and her may have a shot at being friends.





This situation happened between me and this one guy where he liked me, and I felt intimidated/uncomfortable, and I ended up hating him for a while, but now after he handled it like that we've become incredibly close and I trust him...I'm in a relationship now, but if I wasn't, maybe I really would consider actually dating him.
Reply:She doesnt feel the same way and she doesnt sound all that coz she doesnt want to speak to you anymore... Forget her! Your too good for her! Most guys would pester her and annoy her! But you have respect! You'll fall in love again, this is a good experience, now you know your capable of lovin someone! ;)


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Reply:make out with her

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